114 Some Other Ideas for Play and Pleasure #2

Find ways to pamper her

You can always find things she likes and find out how to pamper your partner. You could pay for her to have a day away as a “spa”   break or just do the pampering yourself in the ways she has shown you. This might include a massage, a pedicure (which assumes that you have learned to do it the way she wants), breakfast in bed, run her her bath for her, and time doing a foot massage as well. If this is what she likes she will like it, and if you do it to her satisfaction she will like it a lot!

You could offer her a specific package of a day of service: doing the shopping and housework, cooking and taking her out for a meal, and accompanying her for her to go shopping with you providing the car and driver (yourself) and porter to carry all he purchases.

You could both decide to have a day of “pleasure and intimacy” which you both decide, but she makes all the decisions on what is done.

All of these are just suggestions of how you can spoil her; you both need to find out what YOU want to do.

Intensify sensation

When you touch someone they feel your touch, but if they are not expecting it the sensation is increased in strength as there is no warning. The same is true if you are touched but in the dark, or cannot hear what is going on.

You can try the effect of touching or massage with either of you wearing a blindfold, so either the person being touched , or the person trying to do the touching cannot see. This can all be intensified further if one of you is wearing ear plugs so they cannot hear you coming to touch them, or having soothing music played on the stereo or through the earphones.

If one of you is limited in your movement by some light bondage, tied so you are comfortable but immobile then you are in a good position for touching and particularly for tickling. Only do this if you both want to do it, but you might find it exciting and enjoy yourselves.

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