For men, issues of being intimate are often a massive problem, as they are programmed from their earlier experiences and the media to equate intimacy with penetrative genital sex and nothing else, so they are unable to fulfill the needs of their partner who remains dissatisfied.
For many men their brains are conditioned by their exposure to the images of both soft and hard porn, and the entertainment industry. They are able to masturbate and to reach orgasm with the use of these images and thinking of them in their imagination, and this limits their responses in the real world of dealing with real people.
For many single men, not in a relationship their previous experience of intimacy has been so limited they do not know where to begin, and they are hampered by what experience they already have. Even for those in a relationship their grasp of the essentials of intimacy may be so limited, and their skills in listening, communicating, and serving the needs of a woman may limit the relationship and prevent the enjoyment both should have.
For men the patterns of thought and arousal which have been developed need to be broken and new ones developed to lead them into both conscious and unconscious different behaviors.
But this is not true for all; even if for many men it is a problem. It is possible to change and to begin to understand that intimacy is more than just sex. If a man wants to develop he can do it.
He may struggle at first but he can develop a deep and intimate relationship where what matters is his partner’s needs, desires and aspirations and he is mindful and focused on her. She will respond to this and be better able to satisfy him and both will gain.
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