Time
To improve intimacy between you, time is needed: to talk about things, to do exercises together, and to be intimate with each other. Time is never enough when you are having fun, so you need to set aside time to have this sort of intimate fun and if necessarily schedule that time into the week.
It seems strange to set aside time for sex but it may be needed, especially if you both have such busy lives. Some authors suggest that there should be a “date night“ every week, or every couple of weeks, with time just set aside for the two of you. The details are not so important; it is the conscious setting aside time to be together and to allow intimacy to grow whatever you actually do that matters.
One other way is to look at opportunities to celebrate being together, birthdays, the day you first did certain things together, anniversaries, religious holidays for all faiths (even if you are not a believer). These can all be used by you both to set aside time for YOU BOTH TOGETHER.
Holiday breaks are good, and this does not mean necessarily going away, for you can take a vacation at home where you take a day of leave from work, or take a whole weekend and instead of filling it with things to do, and jobs to be done treat it as a vacation for you as a couple. If you have children they might be able to go to family or friends for this period, or at least for a “sleepover” to allow you to have time together.
A weekend away just for you as a couple will give you chance to pamper your partner and show her how you care for her and give time to hang out together, and be intimate with lots of cuddles and more!
Ms. Sierra Parker 