Make sure to communicate when you are separated
If the man is away on business and alone he will feel lonely. If he is wearing a chastity device he will feel doubly separated, as now he will not be able to masturbate and relieve himself as he used to do. But being locked away, as he has voluntarily embraced, he is safe from dangerous affairs, as the female partner has the key at home.
Now is the time he really needs to be able to see his partner and to talk to her. You can keep things so intimate by talking , texting, emailing , and seeing each other on Skype even if you are forced to be thousands of miles away. This is essential as it keeps the connection close between you, and you see and hear each other to keep you in touch in every sense. For the man in a chastity device this is touch from afar, as every feeling he has of the device is the touch of his partner who applied the device; she holds him closely to her with the device just as if she were holding him in her hand.
Keep an intimacy diary
I have written before of the value of keeping an intimacy diary. This allows you to keep a record of all the things you find intimate in your relationship, and to muse on possibilities. It needs to be completely private to each partner, but it can help you when you are looking at your reaction to events and actions, and to work out how to discuss issues of intimacy which otherwise you might come to talking about unprepared.
It is a good discipline to do this. Looking back you will begin to see the record of all the things you now see as intimate, increasing (even the mundane actions such as taking out the trash), and it will remind you of how far you have come on the journey to increasing intimacy in your relationship.
Ms. Sierra Parker 