The sight of a man bent over, kissing the feet of his beloved is very empowering to the woman. She sees him adoring at her feet, kissing her feet and showering them with lots of little kisses. He will find that so many areas of the feet are sensitive to kisses, particularly the instep and the ankles, and some women like their toes kissed or even sucked by their partners.
The only worries are that the kiss may touch a sensitive area and lead to an involuntary movement so the man is kicked, or that it is too ticklish. Obviously ideally the feet to be kissed are best clean and washed and not too sweaty, but for some the feet are an erotic zone no matter their state.
In cultures where most of the body is covered the ankles are often seen as supremely sexy and kept covered up to prevent exciting men too much. For some kissing the feet is extended to kissing the shoes or boots which cover the feet.
Kissing the feet and ankles can of course often lead onto kissing the calves, legs, and thighs and even higher up as part of an extended love making. Here taking time to enjoy kissing each part in turn and not rushing can give pleasure. Although the sight of a man on his knees kissing his partner’s feet could be taken as a sign of his submission to her, it is also a sign of how he wishes to give her pleasure in every conceivable way, and to show that he loves every inch of her from top to bottom. Such foot kissing can be accompanied by any other care of her feet, a foot rub, massage, or just holding her feet and keeping them warm.
All of this can be such an intimate act, whether done whilst she is resting on the couch, with her feet up on a footstool or even on arrival home in the evening, when kneeling to kiss your partner’s feet show that you are truly there for her and there for her needs and desires.
Encouraged to rise from the kneeling position the man can then be encouraged further to kiss other areas and to become more intimate in kissing and giving pleasure, but kissing the feet can be a good place to start.
Michael has been Mary’s partner for some time, and they tended to greet each other without touching on meeting. Now Michael has discovered that Mary likes to have her feet kissed and touched and for him to kneel before her when he comes home, and to kiss her feet. He stays there at her feet until she tells him to rise, and whilst he is there all the cares of the day slip from him, as he knows where he is and what he is doing.
When she allows him to stand he knows he is truly home, and is free to serve and adore his partner. Sometime she lets him do the same thing in the morning before he goes to work. For her this is pleasure and fun; for him it is a profound and intimate action that shows he puts himself totally before her and that her pleasure is his priority first on arriving home.
This has the effect of freeing him for the evening ahead, and even if everything is mundane, that simple act of homage and pleasure has set the tone for their time together. He puts himself in her hands knowing that all will be well, and that he wants to do this, as a sign of his love for her. By accepting it and then getting him to rise and kiss her on the lips she shows her acceptance and love of him in all ways. Together for them this simple act is a celebration of intimacy even though it takes only a few seconds or a minute or two.
You might find it fun to kiss the feet of your partner and She might like it as well as long as you do not tickle her with your kisses. Give it a try!
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